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Author Spotlight: Matthew Davis, ‘Let Me Try Again’

Ross Mathcamp might have just become a millionaire overnight due to losing both of his parents in a helicopter crash on route to Turks & Caicos, but it’s the least of his worries. He willingly let go of his girlfriend Lora Liamant, the love of his life, as a dastardly test to convince her of his own greatness, but it backfires, and he finds himself alone. Now free to do however as he pleases, he embarks on a mission of self-discovery and improvement in order to win her back, but a neurotic and insecure young Jewish guy might have more problems than a medicine drawer full of supplements and high-tech gadgets can manage on their own. A ridiculously funny and absurd tale of heartbreak in the modern age, Let Me Try Again is as witty and sharp as debuts come.

Our Culture sat down with Matthew Davis to talk about nice Jewish boys, writing provocatively, and moral absolutism.

Congrats on your debut novel! How does it feel for it to be out?

It’s an interesting change, because I wrote this four years ago, and it’s taken so long for it to come out. There have been all sorts of weird roadblocks and false conclusions that come up along the way. I’m glad people are liking it; it seems people are responding moderately well to it. I guess I’m waiting for it to get more attention — I haven’t done enough of these yet, I guess.

I just read the piece in the Los Angeles Review of Books!

Yeah, I was reading that this morning. It compared me to these great Jewish writers, [Philip] Roth and Joshua Cohen, Saul Bellow — there was a lot about Saul Bellow in that article, actually. But it failed to consider how my book subverts some of the neurotic nihilism of the Jewish comic novel by introducing a pretty significant Catholic element, which is how it differentiates itself from different Jewish novels.

With you and Ross both young Jews in New York City, Let Me Try Again could be read as autofiction, but there’s enough jokes and absurdity for it to be an entirely new character. But was your own life a starting point?

I think certain feelings I had, articulating what’s funny about them — all of the worst things about me are probably there in Ross. But I think the biographical details of Ross are actually quite different, and I didn’t do any of the stuff he did. But it’s fair to say that Ross reacts to things around him in a similar way that I would have at that age. 

Ross is such an interesting character — he’s health-obsessed, cocky, convinced of his greatness. He says to his psychiatrist, “I want someone to tell me I’m smart and amazing and handsome and cook and clean for me.” How was it like writing his thought process?

There’s part of Ross that’s deeply insecure, because he is quite young. Looking back at some of the stuff, it’s hard to remember whether I was making fun of what 23-year-olds have to say, or if they’re things I actually felt. Now with four years of distance from it, I can pretend they’re genius satire insights into the young Jewish psyche. But I tried to imagine some of the worst and most selfish and delusional thoughts I’ve ever had. I was probably writing this like how I acted when I was 19. Whatever the quote you just read is probably pretty close to something I would have wanted around then.

Yeah, he’s a very provocative narrator, deeply funny but unflinching — he laments that poor people aren’t smart enough (like he is) to be responsible for their money, helps friends who associate his Jewishness with financial knowledge, and after not registering a white mugger as a threat, he offers pro-bono tutoring for children of color. With him being so sharp, did you feel a need to limit his ideas or personality?

No — in all of those things, I feel like he’s coming from a good, 21st century liberal place, but I think the commentary basically is reviewing some of the crueler, arrogant attitudes that are behind some of these well-meaning things. Through the book, he comes up with these policy proposals, so he talks about taking the money when you buy a lottery ticket and secretly investing that for poor people. That’s probably an idea I had when I was younger that actually would work, but it’s articulated in a way that’s so convoluted and patronizing. Basically mean. It’s coming from a mean place, but it has the effect of doing something good, and I think there’s something funny and subversive about that.

Let Me Try Again is a very Jewish book and I related to most of it — the standout phrase is when he says, “My upbringing simply wouldn’t allow me to love any woman who didn’t treat me like her special little genius.” We talked about Roth earlier, were you trying to emulate someone like that?

I was actually thinking a lot about Franz Kafka, who I think was a more worthy predecessor in this funny Jewish guy way, for people like Philip Roth and Saul Bellow and Woody Allen. Roth, to me, seems like an evil version of Woody Allen, and maybe it’s just that Woody makes these lighthearted movies and Roth has a darker side to him. I was definitely inspired more so by Kafka, Woody Allen, Larry David. I think there’s a lot of George Costanza in Ross’s outbursts and frustrations of the world around him. 

To win back his girlfriend, Ross employs The Goldberg Strategy — based on a physically fit Jewish wrestler who resisted against the stereotype of the weak Jew — and ups his prescriptions, supplements, and starts weightlifting. Why do you think he’s so health-obsessed, and eschews the idea that his personality might be the problem?

Well, the obsession with health and supplements — he has all these gadgets, like a headband that measures his brain waves while he sleeps — I think there’s so many remedies available to us. I think there’s a tendency or hopefulness to think that if I just buy one more pill, it’ll be the thing that fixes me. But I think there’s also something going on with a deep dissatisfaction with his body, he feels limited by it. He’s arrogant about his mind and mental abilities, and there’s this sense that his personality and his mind is who he really is, and if someone doesn’t like him, it’s very likely there’s something wrong with his body which he’s constantly at war with and takes measures to modulate. 

To his credit, he does admit that breaking up with Lora is the wrong decision.

Yeah, he’s full of regret. I think he’s a ruminator and ultimately dissatisfied. Throughout the book he thinks he’s an idiot, which I mentioned earlier there’s a deep insecurity and he hates himself in a lot of ways. He was unhappy when he was with Lora and then was unhappy when he wasn’t with her. He couldn’t help but feel like he made a mistake.

One thing I thought was interesting is how antsy around sex he is — he regrets the women he brings to his apartment whom he meets on apps, and hates to see Lora with her new man, and both his being replaced and her dating anyone influences it. This seems atypical of a wealthy guy in New York to be disgusted by them — what influenced this trait?

I don’t know if he’s quite disgusted — I think the second woman Ross encounters, she’s kind of mean to him. He seems to like having sex with Lora in the book, because he views that as actually liking him. But when it’s with some stranger he can’t wrap his head around why someone would even want to do that. It disturbs him, I guess.

I just remember that word because a chapter starts with the phrase, “After my night with that disgusting woman…” and I laughed.

I don’t remember that line, but that’s a funny line, for sure. What’s interesting about Ross is that he wasn’t raised with religion, so he has these feelings and moralistic tendencies but he’s not exactly sure where they’re coming from, they’re deep inside of him. He has these intuitions but can’t fully articulate why he feels this way.

Is that why, when Emily [his sister] converts to Catholicism, he thinks it’s wrong, but isn’t sure why?

Yeah, I think there’s some central tension with Jewish identity and what it means to be Jewish — Ross isn’t a practicing Jew, he isn’t going to shul, keeping kosher or wearing a kippah or anything — Emily points this out, that at least she believes that Moses was a real guy. In a lot of ways, she’s being more Jewish than Ross, she thinks the events of the Torah actually happened.

He’s kind of the opposite of an NJB, in a way.

You don’t think in a lot of ways he’s a nice Jewish boy?

Well, when we’re reading his thought process, no…

There’s something very honest, at times, maybe brutally honest, you could say. It’ll be interesting to see how this book will be received among nice Jewish boys. I wonder if they’ll find it relatable.

I found it relatable.

Do you identify as a nice Jewish boy?

I do. Do you?

I don’t know if I would use that term, but I identify with the sentiment… I think I basically am… [laughs] when it becomes an acronym, I don’t like it with the letters capitalized… But I like it as a phrase, I think it’s a nice-sounding phrase. But it becoming a trademarked capitalized acronym… I wouldn’t want to be part of any group that would have someone like me for a member.

Interesting. I know someone who did a Nice Jewish Boy Pageant, which is a little much for me.

Exactly. I wouldn’t want to go to a meetup. Or call myself that. But I guess I’m nice, I’m a boy, and I’m Jewish.

I love the conversations he has with his psychiatrist, who doesn’t pretend to hide his attraction to Ross and thus prescribed him anything he wants. Do you think Ross is using the relationship for material gain or he genuinely benefits from someone listening to him?

A little bit of both. I think he likes having someone he can go talk to. But he also likes going to a psychiatrist who [gives] endless praise and compliments for him. It’s nice to go somewhere every week and be affirmed, to have someone tell you how great you are.

In regular therapy, you can’t do that. You have to work on things.

I dunno, is that true? I’ve been going to psychoanalysis for the past 15 months. I go to a woman analyst and she says nothing. I lie there and look up at the ceiling and she doesn’t give me any insight or weigh in. She doesn’t tell me anything.

Sounds Freudian.

Yeah, exactly. Ross hints at craving a psychoanalytic experience like that. But instead, he just gets this guy. There’s something funny about this, which is maybe not fleshed out in the text very well, this idea that most psychiatrists’ job is just to give you pills. But they make you talk to them and it’s this awkward thing. If you’re going to a therapist for [cognitive behavioral therapy], which I’ve never done, they give you homework. 

Yeah, in college, I saw a therapist for CBT specifically for OCD, but the homework, stopping your compulsions, was so difficult.

Did you do it, or just stop going?

I stopped going. Well, he was really rude, too. He took my call while running errands and I wasn’t assertive enough to say something.

I’ve had psychiatrists I’ve gone to, and on Zoom, it’s really ridiculous. They’re eating black-and-white cookies and playing video poker. The idea of the ‘Zoom therapist’ is something funny on its own. I wrote this book during the pandemic, as it’s known, but I didn’t want it to be about that.

Ross is pseudo-cancelled after teaching an open-ended philosophy course where the students report him after a thought experiment in which he asks them to explain why racism is wrong; a pretentious and silly student journalist breaks the “news.” What did you want to explore with this idea?

I think that broader discussion is part of the themes of religion and morality in the book. As someone who is a moral absolutist, someone who believes everyone is created equally by God, I think it’s wrong to discriminate or hurt people. I agree that you can intuit it’s wrong to be racist or sexist or mean or to kill someone. You can have deeply felt beliefs about them but I don’t know if you can rigorously account from where any of your morals actually come from. And this is not a new idea, this is probably a 19th century idea when people stopped believing in God. I think what I was trying to say is that there’s a great certainty and confidence young people have in their beliefs — which are often right — but I don’t know if they can explain why they think that. 

Random, but, do you consider the book a satire?

I don’t know if I really like that word. It is funny, my agent asked me this when I first signed with her two years ago, like, it’s kind of making fun of me, since I take all these pills. But I would consider it a comic novel, with some satirical elements and fake props and pills and dating apps. It’s one of those words I don’t like using, similar to ‘Nice Jewish Boy.’

I ask because I was talking to another novelist who said some things he does are satirical and some aren’t. It’s hard for me, at least, to find the distinction, when I write.

It’s kind of natural that Jews have a detachment and ironic approach to everything — they’ve been kicked out of every country they’ve ever been in. You can’t help but be ironic and satirical, making fun of things you see around you. I’m thinking again of Kafka. Is The Trial a satire of 20th century bureaucracy bohemia? I dunno, maybe it is. It might be the best word, but only because there’s no better word for it.

The Instagram account you’re using for memes related to the book is very entertaining — it looks like fun, but is it also just the way one has to promote a novel these days?

I have a weird publisher that’s good enough, I’m in the system, and you can buy my book at Walmart and Target. It’s distributed by Simon & Schuster, but it’s quite small. It’s hard to get a lot of reviews and media attention, so I attempt to appeal directly to the youth. I’m not even sure how effective it is at promoting the book. It’s a fixation of mine. I’m thinking about my book a lot because it’s an exciting and nerve-wracking thing to have a book coming out, and it’s a good place to dump these half-formed ideas somewhere. I like the Story format a lot since it goes away.

Are we running out of time? I’m seeing this thing in the corner.

No we’re good, my university kicked me off of my Zoom account and now I don’t want to pay for the full version.

Good thing it lets you record on the free version. Put this part in, this is the type of thing I would love to have in the interview also. I’m not joking.

Sure.

Me talking about how it’s interesting that the free plan of Zoom lets you record still.

You’re outing me as someone who doesn’t want to pay.

Yeah, true.

Finally, are you working on anything else?

I’ve been thinking about how there’s probably going to be more stuff to talk about now with the book out. There’s some Nabokov quote about how when you have a story or a book that’s unfinished, it’s like a big trunk you carry around. I feel like I’m about to be relieved of this great burden, actually. And maybe it’s scary, like it’s not clear what comes next, but I imagine it’ll be easier. I haven’t written anything novel-length because I had a sense that if I started another novel and this one sold, then I’d have to go back and I’d have two unfinished novels at once. If I start another one I’ll have to sit down and write every day until a first draft is done, which is how I did this book. So I’d like to get my life in order in a way where I can take three months and sit down and write for an hour.


Let Me Try Again is out now.

Artist Spotlight: Peel Dream Magazine

Peel Dream Magazine is the now Los Angeles-based project led by Joseph Stephens, who hails from New York. Since launching the band in 2018 with Modern Meta Physic, Stephens has dabbled in and cycled through a wide range of styles and instrumental palettes, from the introspective shoegaze of 2020’s Agitprop Alterna to the orchestral baroque pop of 2022’s Pad. It’s no surprise that the band’s new album, Rose Main Reading Room, out today, is yet another musical departure, though one that can’t easily be traced back to a particular place and time. With help from vocalist Olivia Babuka Black and multi-instrumentalist Ian Gibbs, Stephens brings new colour and lushness to the ever-evolving Peel Dream Magazine sound, fusing archetypal indie pop, minimalist excursions, and dreamy psychedelia. The arrangements are strangely but beautifully aligned with the album’s conceptual journey: named after a hall at the New York Public Library, Rose Main Reading Room blurs the line between evolution and personal history, guiding us through Stephens’ childhood memories of New York City and beyond. The record is luminous and mesmerizing in its wide-eyed optimism and gentle nostalgia – hazy and fragmented as their expression may be – slipping into new revelations simply by driving itself forward.

We caught up with Peel Dream Magazine’s Joseph Stevens for the latest edition of our Artist Spotlight series to talk about his relationship with live performance, contextualizing the new Peel Dream Magazine album, the process behind it, and more.


In a recent conversation with Wild Nothing’s Jack Tatum, you talked about how you see touring as album promotion, and that you don’t romanticize performing the way others tend to. I’m curious how your perspective on that changes from tour to tour, or even from show to show, now that you’re on the road.

I really like touring. The only thing I don’t like about it is that it can be exhausting sometimes, but the traveling part is super fun. I think what I was saying about the promotion thing is that I don’t always feel as invested in live performance – I don’t have this need to get in front of people and share live performance with them. I don’t get as much of a kick out of it as some people do, but I love the traveling part. I love the culture, showing up to venues, seeing all the people who are working, grabbing food, all these cool little excursions you get to do. It’s fun to tour the country, and it’s especially fun to do overseas touring. But I’m most interested in writing and recording albums than performing in front of people.

Every Peel Dream Magazine record so far has been pretty radically different. What has your approach been in terms of combining new and old material on this tour?

We’ve been playing a lot of new stuff from the new record, like maybe half the set. The rest of the set is actually a mixture of the first and second album. I got kind of tired of playing the songs from the third album, Pad, and I felt like the new record meshes better with the older stuff because it feels more like archetypal band music, as opposed to Pad, which is more of a concept-y, baroque-pop thing. I feel like the new stuff works well with the old stuff in a weird way. It’s been fun to revisit all that, and it definitely makes for a slightly shoegazier set.

Aside from the live set, is this something you also take into account when you’re making a new record? With Rose Main Reading Room, were you more or less conscious of how the songs might exist in the context of, or as a response to, your previous records?

Yeah, I think so. Whenever I’m working on a new batch of songs, I go through these extreme phases where I get really tired of whatever I just did, to the point where it just makes my skin crawl and I’m like, “I want to evolve beyond that.” So, Pad was a reaction to the shoegaze stuff of Agitprop Alterna, and with the new record, I got really tired of the mid-century orchestral pop sensibility of the previous album. Everything felt so quaint and jazzy and bossa-inspired, and I wanted to revisit a harmonic sensibility that was more ordinary or something, more natural to me, something coming out of the music I’ve always listened to, and not as much of a shtick. I was trying to move away from the bossa stuff, the clever chord progressions, and move more toward a simple, straightforward rock sound.

I feel like the first and second record have this minimalist, post-rock, droney kind of stuff, and I wanted to revisit some of that in the context of more symphonic instruments. I was listening to Philip Glass, Steve Reich, stuff like that, and all of that was going around in my head. I do always think of each record within the context of the ones that came before it, and I think about what would be fun and fresh for me. If I was a listener and had heard the previous records, what would I want to hear next? I try to think of it like I’m building a musical canon to a certain extent.

Do you ever seek the opposite mindset, where you try to think about what you’d like to listen to if you somehow weren’t aware of the previous material? To try and tap into whatever’s catching your ear at the moment?

I think I do that too, yeah. I like to try and get lost in whatever new thing I’m into as well. If you listen to the records in order, it’s almost like, in one way, the same person wrote the songs, but in another way, it’s like different people made them. I definitely change personally as each album cycle passes, but my musical taste changes too. I always want to kind of revel in whatever feels new and exciting to me. While I do think about the old records in the context of each new one, I don’t think of it like I’m following a blueprint from day one. I like to change it up a lot. With every record, I feel like I stumble onto a little trove in the dirt of stuff that is exciting to me, and once I’ve got all the good stuff – whether it’s an instrument palette or drum machine stuff or whatever – I feel like I’m ready to move on.

A song that comes to mind is ‘Machine Repeating’, which feels like it’s not just moving in one direction; there’s an interesting juxtaposition between gentle, acoustic, and orchestral elements with these squishy, ’80s-sounding synths. That feels like the result of that kind of approach.

Totally. Once I get all the ingredients on the table, they become customized tools for each record. I’m like, “I know this thing is fun,” and if I get stuck, I’m like, “Well, I’ll try something else.” If there’s space missing in a mix, I might use a cool, warbly sound from another song and see if it works. Mixing symphonic and electronic stuff is definitely part of the toolkit for this record. I remember wrestling with that song a lot, but it was more about mixing stuff, not so much the instrument palette. I think I wrote that song really quickly and it was essentially a glorified demo. I was just having a lot of fun with the acoustic guitars and clarinets. I wish I had better stories like that – it’s not like I was in the studio and someone accidentally started playing the clarinet, and I was like, “What if you did that?” But it’s not like that. [laughs] It’s very boring.

Do you have a specific philosophy when it comes to translating the new songs to a live setting? Was that something you concretely laid out before putting the show together?

It’s interesting, that’s something I’m wrestling with right now. It’s pretty hard to translate the record live, I think. On one hand, I try to lean into making things sound more like a band is playing them, stripping back some of the more grandiose parts of the mixes. But on the other hand, I’m always like, “Oh, that one part is really cool, I don’t want to lose that.” So there’s stuff we throw into the backing track. I don’t really have any kind of philosophy when it comes to playing live. I’ve seen people do shows where they just play an instrumental from their iPhone and sing over it. But it would be really cool to have a bigger band, but you have to keep the band somewhat small and think about the logistics. That’s a kind of wrestling match I have with myself. We don’t have the luxury of having the most grandiose live performance ever, just because we don’t really have much of a budget for touring. Things are a bit leaner, and we go for a more archetypal rock band arrangement.

How has your own relationship with being onstage developed over time?

Sometimes I really like performing. If I feel like we sound really good and it’s matching what I’m aspiring to do, I really like it. I like the idea of standing in front of people, sharing my heart, you know? But a lot of the time, I don’t. Maybe the stage sound isn’t good, or the venue is weird, or the sound person is weird, or the crowd is weird. When the crowd is really quiet or something, I’ll get shy and not feel excited about performing. It’s a roller coaster ride, actually. Sometimes it’s the best thing ever, and other times it just feels kind of weird.

I wish I was more of a showman sometimes. I don’t really like to talk – I don’t do any kind of banter or anything like that. There’s a lot of tuning that takes place, and we have transition music playing, and I’m just staring at the ground, tuning. I think some people find it kind of stark because there’s no talking. We’re not trying to do the storyteller thing or be charming in that way – it’s really just about playing the songs. Some people like that, but some people expect more of a classic showman thing. But I really don’t like to talk at shows. I also don’t like to see people talking at shows – I like to just go to a show where someone is just going to play the songs and that’s it, because I’m most interested in the songwriting.

One of my favorite tracks on the album is ‘Recital’, which is about a piano recital you were in as a kid, and you’re kind of tracing back this anxiety around performance.

That song is really abstract. On the one hand, it’s just about being nervous at a piano recital when you’re about to perform – but then, sort of left of center, I’m fantasizing about a student that’s sitting in front of me, and I’m not even paying attention to the recital anymore. It’s kind of talking about this duality – underneath this civilized event, there’s this ancient thing that’s irrelevant to the event going on.

It’s interesting that Olivia’s voice is so prominent on the song, which switches things up as far as perspective goes. What was the thinking behind that?

I wouldn’t say it was the idea from the beginning, but that became obvious to me as well. Once that clicked in my head, I was like, “Whoa, that kind of obscures things in a cool way.” It makes it less autobiographical and more universal.

More broadly, how do you feel your collaborators added their own voice, both literally and aesthetically, to the record? How do you feel their presence shaped Rose Main Reading Room?

I felt like Pad was a little too much myself. Even beyond the decision-making, the actual performances of all the instruments, it felt like a million “me”s playing everything. After a while, it felt like everything was the same every time I listened to it. So I thought it would be cool to involve more people in this record, if for no other reason than to give it a bit more spontaneity and have some musical decision-making that was different from my own. It’s kind of funny because I’m actually a bit of a control freak, especially when it comes to mixing and stuff. But I thought it would be cool to short-circuit myself there and just have things that I couldn’t even change, just performances by other people.

Ian Gibbs played drums on the record, and he was in charge of tracking those drums. We did that stuff in his parents’ garage. It was just fun to hand it over to somebody for a bit and not be the judge, jury, and executioner all by myself. There were little things Ian did that I never would have done. For example, in the song ‘Wish You Well’, the middle chorus, it kicks into this groovy drum beat. Originally, I didn’t want there to be drums there; it was supposed to be just a snare fill. But Ian, hearing it for the first time, did that classic thing where he was like, “What if we just threw a beat on it?” In my mind, I was like, “No, I don’t want to do that.” But we tracked it, and later on, I listened to it and was like, “Actually, that’s a cool development that I wouldn’t have done myself.”

I also wanted to vocally expand the literal vocal range of the melodies and bring in another human, another identity to the mix. Olivia is an absolutely incredible singer, and I was really fortunate that she was down to sing on the record. Hearing her take on the vocals was also surprising and really helpful. While we were recording, it was fun to orchestrate ideas in real time with her while she was tracking vocals. We would do background stuff and harmonies, reacting to how they sounded with the instrumental music. I feel like if I was left to my own devices, I would just do the same bag of tricks that I do myself. I kind of write based on that. I know my voice so well that there’s no surprises left – that’s not true, but in general, it gets kind of boring.

A lot of the memories you lay out on the record come from childhood, which is a theme that the voice recording in ‘Wood Paneling, Pt. 3’ really puts into focus. How do you personally reflect on not just the role of family in childhood, but how it extends into adulthood, even in ways that aren’t necessarily explored on the record?

There’s this whole theme of human evolution, animal evolution, and geological time. There’s an allegory there for your own personal evolution. So, if you think of your life as a history – your upbringing as, like, your ancient history, and then your adulthood as the current day you – your family is obviously a big part of that. I was reflecting and juxtaposing different little memories I had. There’s not a whole grand statement as opposed to different snapshots from different ages in my life, contextualized as if it’s animal history or something, like you’re gawking at different exhibits in a museum.

That recording was really fascinating to me because, on one hand, it’s really nostalgic and kind of sweet. He’s talking about family and the way it plays this crucial role in raising you, how they’re so important to you, they love you so much. But it’s also kind of sardonic and fucked up. At the end, you hear these ape screams, and it’s quite dark. Without saying a lot, I wanted to juxtapose those two things.

I wasn’t sure if that was part of the original recording or if you added that in to create contrast.

No, that’s literally part of the recording. It’s from the forties or something, and they just didn’t know that that was kind of awkward and abrasive. They end the video with these apes screaming, it’s super weird. If that video was made noawadays, I feel like it would probably end with something more canned and sentimental.

I feel like the instrumentals on the album take us into the natural world in a more direct way. What did you get out of playing with those patterns or images purely through music?

It was cool. I mean, that song ‘Migratory Patterns’, for example, it’s not like I was reading about birds and matching the BPM of the song to this thing some scientists discovered is actually – it’s not that deep. It was more just, I wrote this thing, and after the fact, I realized it kind of evoked this forward momentum, like a flock of birds or something. I don’t even know if I set out to compose anything that specifically sounded like the natural world from the beginning. It was more, as I was working on stuff, I was thinking of ways to tie it all together. I almost feel like if the album had another theme, I could have named all those things differently and given them an entirely different context. Sometimes it’s fun to just take a title and be like, “Oh, now it’s about birds,” but it wasn’t necessarily about that to begin with.

I know that’s not as interesting to say, but for some reason, I was fixating on a woodland sound palette and churned out all these different things that took me to that place. The song ‘Central Park West’, actually, that was originally an instrumental – in my mind, it was an instrumental of a bear lumbering through the forest. I think at one point, it was even ‘Grizzly Bear Song’ or something. I fixate on a few themes and then try them out – it’s like a wardrobe. “What if this was about a bear? What if this was about birds?”

Starting with ‘Lie in the Gutter’, the gaze of the record seems to open up and become more cosmic and existential. Why was it important for the record to land in that place with the last three songs? Do you see them representing a similar kind of optimism that’s hinted at throughout the record?

That’s a good question. I definitely wrestled with the track sequence a lot and tried all kinds of things. At one point, we even tried having ‘Lie in the Gutter’ as the first song. The short answer is that those songs aren’t there because they needed to be, like a particular vibe or perspective. And I don’t know if there’s necessarily a whole message that the record lands on with those last three songs, although I do like the sequence and how it gets more optimistic and existential toward the end. ‘Counting Sheep’ always felt to me kind of like a lullaby, going to sleep, all is okay, comforting song. So I wanted that to be the last track. But beyond that, I’m not really sure. It’s funny, at one point I really didn’t like how the song ‘Lie in the Gutter’ came out, and I didn’t even want it to be on the album. I think that’s why I placed it late in the sequence, because I didn’t want people to hear it or something.

But it became the lead single.

Yeah, the record label at the end said they wanted it to be the first single. And I was like, “God damn it!” But I think it’s a really nice moment as a palate cleanser where it occurs on the record. It was literally like horse trading; I was polling different people every day about what the album sequence should be. I wasn’t sure if all 15 songs could live together under one roof, but every time I tried to take something away or change it, it felt like something was missing.

I like that term, “cosmic relief,” that you use in ‘Lie in the Gutter’, and I feel like it’s part of what spins everything that follows in this revelatory, positive light. Even if it wasn’t intentional, do you feel like that’s a perspective you tried to hold on to in general?

Yeah, I think so. I think I’m kind of a romantic and an optimist at heart. I’m also pessimistic, too – there’s stuff like ‘Running in Place’ and ‘Machine Repeating’, which are kind of on the opposite end of the spectrum. It’s all authentic to my personality. But at the end of the day, once I’ve processed something and been upset about something, I generally want to move on, get on with my life, and find happiness. That’s definitely how I wanted the ending to feel.


This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity and length.

Peel Dream Magazine’s Rose Main Reading Room is out now via Topshelf Records.

The War on Drugs Announce ‘Live Drugs Again’, Cover Tom Petty’s ‘You Wreck Me’

Four years after LIVE DRUGS, the War on Drugs have announced a new live album called Live Drugs Again. It’s set for release on September 13. Today, they’re previewing it with a live version of Lost in the Dream’s ‘Burning’. Check it out below.

Live Drugs Again chronicles the evolution of these songs from the studio to stages all over the world; documenting our continued growth as a live band,” frontman Adam Granduciel said in a statement about the LP, which was recorded on tour between February 2022 and December 2023. “This series ensures that these versions, and some of our favorite moments on stage, will live on.”

Also today, the War on Drugs have shared a cover of Tom Petty’s ‘You Wreck Me’ as part of the soundtrack to Apple TV+’s Bad Monkey. Listen to that below, too.

Next week, the War on Drugs will kick off their co-headlining Zen Diagram Tour with the National. Their most recent studio album was 2021’s I Don’t Live Here Anymore.

Live Drugs Again Tracklist:

1. Harmonia’s Dream
2. Burning
3. Old Skin
4. Come To The City
5. I Don’t Wanna Wait
6. Pain
7. Slow Ghost
8. In Chains
9. Living Proof
10. Under The Pressure
11. I Don’t Live Here Anymore

Lunar Vacation Release New Single ‘Fantasy’

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Lunar Vacation have released ‘Fantasy’, the final preview of their upcoming album Everything Matters, Everything’s Fire, which arrives next Friday (September 13). It follows previous cuts ‘Set the Stage’‘Sick’, and ‘Tom’. Check it out below.

‘Fantasy’ takes a look inside of my daydreams that are sometimes difficult to get away from,” the band’s Gep Repasky explained in a statement. “Sometimes it’s more comfortable to live in your own bubble and watch scenarios in your head all day. We composed the track to feel isolated, with just guitar and vocals in the verse, and then the band suddenly coming in all at once, to kind of mimic an intrusive thought.”

Revisit our Artist Spotlight interview with Lunar Vacation. 

Charlotte Cornfield Unveils New Single ‘Audience of One’

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Charlotte Cornfield has released a new single called ‘Audience of One’. Bonny Light Horseman’s Josh Kaufman produced the song, which you can hear below.

“I’ve always been fascinated by the way that fear permeates my dreams,” Cornfield explained in a statement. “It meanders through vaguely recognizable surroundings, attaching itself to shadowy figures along the way. When I wrote this song I was picturing myself in one of those dream states, crashing an out of control vehicle and then performing to no one except a single ghost-like audience member. In the chorus I am reasoning with myself, trying to let go of the fear and worry that haunts me. I recorded ‘Audience of One’ with Josh Kaufman after we had finished making most of ‘Could Have Done Anything’. Annie Nero sang this stunning backing vocal, and it just felt like a song that needed to live on its own.”

Charlotte Cornfield’s most recent album was last year’s Could Have Done Anything. Revisit our inspirations interview with Charlotte Cornfield.

TV on the Radio Announce First Shows In Over Five Years and ‘Desperate Youth Deluxe’ Reissue

After sharing a mysterious teaser, TV on the Radio have announced a 20th-anniversary reissue of their debut album Desperate Youth, Bloodthirsty Babes. They’re also gearing up to play their first shows in over five years, including four nights at NYC’s Webster Hall, three nights at Los Angekes’ El Rey Theatre, and three nights at London’s Islington Assembly Hall. David Andrew Sitek is unable to join the shows, according to a press release, and the band will feature the band will consist of Tunde Adebimpe, Kyp Malone, and Jaleel Bunton.

Set for release on November 15 via Touch and Go, the expanded album will include five bonus tracks: ‘Staring at the Sun (Demo)’, ‘New Health Rock’, ‘Modern Romance’, Dry Drunk Emperor’, and ‘Final Fantasy’, an early demo of ‘Bomb Yourself’. The last one is out today, and you can listen to it below.

Desperate Youth, Blood Thirsty Babes (20th Anniversary Edition) Tracklist:

1. The Wrong Way
2. Dreams
3. King Eternal
4. Ambulance
5. Poppy
6. Don’t Love You
7. Bomb Yourself
8. Wear You Out
9. Staring At The Sun
10. You Could Be Love
11. Staring At The Sun (Demo)*
12. New Health Rock (single)*
13. Modern Romance (from the “New Health Rock” single)*
14. Final Fantasy (2004 recording)*
15. Dry Drunk Emperor (2005 recording)*
*bonus tracks

TV on the Radio 2024 Tour Dates:

Nov 25 – New York, N.Y. – Webster Hall
Nov 26 – New York, N.Y. – Webster Hall
Nov 29 – New York, N.Y. – Webster Hall
Nov 30 – New York, N.Y. – Webster Hall
Dec 4 – Los Angeles – El Rey Theatre
Dec 5 – Los Angeles – El Rey Theatre
Dec 7 – Los Angeles – El Rey Theatre
Dec 10 – London, UK – Islington Assembly Hall
Dec 11 – London, UK – Islington Assembly Hall
Dec 12 – London, UK – Islington Assembly Hall

Future Islands Release New Song ‘Glimpse’

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Future Islands have put out a new one-off single, ‘Glimpse’. The track was recorded during the sessions behind the band’s  latest album People Who Aren’t There Anymore, which arrived earlier this year. Future Islands and Steve Wright co-produced the song, which was mixed by Chris Coady and Steve Wright. Check out its accompanying animated video, created by Jayla Smith, below.

The Ideal Age for a Facelift: When Is the Best Time to Consider the Procedure?

The decision to undergo a facelift is a personal one, influenced by various factors beyond just age. While many people start considering this procedure in their 40s and 50s, there’s no universally “ideal” age for everyone. The best time for a facelift depends on individual aging patterns, skin elasticity, and personal goals.

Visible signs of aging, such as deeper wrinkles, loss of skin elasticity, and sagging around the midface and neck, often prompt individuals to explore facelift options. These changes typically become more noticeable from the mid-40s to 50s, making this age range common for facelift considerations. However, successful outcomes have been achieved for patients in their 60s, 70s, and even 80s.

A facelift in Ontario can help restore a more youthful appearance and boost confidence at various stages of life. The key is to consult with a qualified plastic surgeon who can assess your unique facial structure, skin quality, and aesthetic goals to determine if you’re a suitable candidate for the procedure.

Key Takeaways

  • The ideal age for a facelift varies based on individual factors and aesthetic goals
  • Consultation with a qualified surgeon is crucial for determining candidacy
  • Facelifts can provide lasting results and boost confidence when performed at the right time

Evaluating the Right Time for a Facelift

Determining the optimal timing for a facelift depends on various factors related to aging and individual skin characteristics. Careful consideration of these elements can help patients make informed decisions about facial rejuvenation.

Understanding the Aging Process and Facelift Timing

The aging process affects facial structures differently for each person. Factors like genetics, lifestyle, and sun exposure influence how quickly signs of aging appear. As collagen production decreases, skin loses elasticity and begins to sag.

Facial fat pads shift downward, creating jowls and deepening nasolabial folds. Fine lines and wrinkles become more pronounced. These changes typically start in the 30s and progress through the 40s and 50s.

Facelift timing often correlates with the severity of these aging signs. Some individuals may benefit from earlier intervention, while others might wait until more significant changes occur.

Ideal Age Range for Facelift Candidates

Most facelift patients fall between 40 and 60 years old. This age range often sees noticeable signs of aging that can be effectively addressed by the procedure.

Patients in their 40s may opt for less invasive techniques like a mini-lift to target early jowls and neck laxity. Those in their 50s and 60s might require more comprehensive facelifts to address deeper wrinkles and significant sagging.

It’s important to note that there’s no strict age limit for facelifts. Healthy individuals in their 70s or even 80s can still benefit from the procedure if they have good skin elasticity.

Signs You Might Be Ready for a Facelift

  • Persistent jowls that don’t improve with non-surgical treatments • Deep nasolabial folds (lines from nose to mouth) • Sagging skin in the mid-face and neck areas • Loss of jawline definition • Excess skin or fat under the chin (double chin)

These visible signs often prompt individuals to consider a facelift. When non-invasive options like dermal fillers or Botox no longer provide satisfactory results, it may be time to explore surgical options.

Consulting with a board-certified plastic surgeon can help determine if a facelift is appropriate. They will assess skin quality, facial structure, and overall health to recommend the best course of action.

Considering the Procedure and Aftercare

Choosing a qualified surgeon, understanding the consultation process, preparing for surgery, and planning for recovery are crucial steps when considering a facelift. These factors significantly impact the success and safety of the procedure.

Choosing a Qualified Plastic Surgeon

Selecting a board-certified plastic surgeon is essential for facelift surgery. These professionals have undergone rigorous training and adhere to strict safety standards. Patients should research potential surgeons’ credentials, experience, and before-and-after photos of previous facelift patients.

It’s advisable to schedule consultations with multiple surgeons to compare approaches and find the best fit. Asking about the surgeon’s experience with different facelift techniques, such as traditional facelifts, mini facelifts, or neck lifts, can help patients make informed decisions.

What to Expect During the Consultation

During the initial consultation, the surgeon will assess the patient’s facial structure, skin quality, and aesthetic goals. They may take photos and discuss various surgical options tailored to the patient’s needs.

The surgeon should explain the procedure in detail, including potential risks and expected outcomes. Patients should come prepared with questions about the surgeon’s experience, approach to facelifts, and recommendations for their specific case.

It’s important to discuss medical history, medications, and lifestyle factors that could affect the surgery or recovery process. The surgeon may also suggest complementary procedures like Botox or fillers to enhance results.

Preparing for Surgery and Understanding Risks

Prior to surgery, patients may need to adjust medications, quit smoking, and avoid certain supplements to reduce risks. The surgeon will provide specific pre-operative instructions, which may include fasting before the procedure.

Patients should understand potential complications such as infection, hematoma, or adverse reactions to anesthesia. While rare, these risks should be discussed thoroughly with the surgeon.

The cost of the procedure, including facility fees and anesthesia, should be clearly outlined. Patients should also inquire about the possibility of revisions and associated costs.

Facelift Recovery: Timeline and Tips for a Smooth Healing

Recovery time varies but typically spans 2-3 weeks. Patients should plan for time off work and arrange for help at home during the initial recovery period.

Swelling and bruising are common in the first week. Proper care of incisions, following medication schedules, and avoiding sun exposure are crucial for optimal healing.

Patients should attend all follow-up appointments to monitor progress. Most can resume light activities after 2 weeks, but strenuous exercise should be avoided for 4-6 weeks.

Adhering to the surgeon’s post-operative instructions, including sleeping with the head elevated and avoiding smoking, can significantly improve healing outcomes and reduce the risk of complications.

Conclusion

The ideal age for a facelift varies for each individual. While many patients seek facelifts between 40 and 60, there is no universal “best” age. The decision depends on factors like skin elasticity, visible signs of aging, and personal goals. Consulting with a board-certified plastic surgeon can help determine if the timing is right for a facelift procedure.

Family Budgeting Strategies to Maximize Savings and Minimize Stress

Managing a family budget can often feel like walking a tightrope. You’re balancing the household’s needs, personal desires, and, of course, the unexpected expenses that always seem to crop up at the worst possible times. It’s a challenging task, but with the right strategies, it’s likely to keep your finances in check, maximize your savings, and reduce stress. A well-planned budget serves as a financial roadmap, guiding your family toward financial stability and helping you achieve your goals without feeling overwhelmed.

Track Your Expenses 

One of the most critical aspects of effective family budgeting is understanding where your money is going. Many families are surprised when they take the time to review their spending habits. What often feels like a reasonable amount spent here and there can quickly add to significant sums. Start by tracking monthly expenses—every coffee, grocery trip, utility bill, and online purchase. Seeing this breakdown can be eye-opening, and it is necessary to identify areas where you might cut back.

Set Clear Financial Goals 

A common mistake in family budgeting is not setting clear financial goals. With a goal, it’s easy to maintain motivation and stay within your budget. Goals give your budget a purpose. Whether saving for a family vacation, building an emergency fund, or preparing for college tuition, having a clear target makes it easier to stay disciplined. Break down your goals into short-term, medium-term, and long-term categories. Short-term goals include saving for holiday gifts, medium-term goals may involve a car purchase, and long-term goals might include retirement savings. Assign realistic timelines to these goals and track your progress regularly. This keeps you focused and provides a sense of accomplishment as you achieve each milestone.

Use Online Banking Tools 

Speaking of automation, embracing online banking tools can also be a game-changer for family budgeting. For instance, many families benefit from using online banking with no deposit requirements. This option can make it easier to grow your savings without the stress of maintaining a minimum balance. Online banks often provide intuitive apps and tools that allow you to track your spending, set up savings goals, and monitor your progress all in one place. The convenience of managing your money from your smartphone can reduce stress and save time, allowing you to focus on other important aspects of your life. Plus, the added benefit of earning more interest on your savings compared to traditional banks can help you reach your financial goals faster.

Apply the 50/30/20 Rule 

One strategy that can be particularly effective in maximizing savings is the “50/30/20” rule. This budgeting rule suggests allocating 50% of your income to needs, 30% to wants, and 20% to savings or debt repayment. This formula provides a balanced approach to budgeting, allowing you to cover essential expenses, enjoy life, and build financial security. However, this rule isn’t flexible. Every family is different, and so are their financial situations. Adjust the percentages according to your needs and financial goals. If you’re working towards paying off debt or saving for a significant expense, you may use a larger portion of your income for savings or debt repayment.

Automate Savings 

Automating your savings is another effective strategy to consider. Many families struggle with saving because they see the money sitting in their checking account and feel tempted to spend it. One way to avoid this temptation is to set up automatic transfers from your checking account to a savings account. Treat your savings like any other bill that needs to be paid each month. This approach ensures that you’re consistently saving money; over time, those savings can grow significantly.

Regularly Review Budget

Creating a budget is more than just a one-time event. It’s a living document that should evolve with your family’s needs and circumstances. Regularly reviewing your budget helps you stay on track and adjust as needed. Set aside time each month to review your finances. Look at what’s working, what isn’t, and where you can improve. Your grocery bill was higher than expected, or you saved more on transportation by carpooling. Use these insights to refine your budget and make more informed financial decisions. This regular check-in also keeps the family accountable and involved in the budgeting process.

Build an Emergency Fund 

It’s also important to build an emergency fund. Life is full of surprises, and not all of them are pleasant. An emergency fund can provide a safety net when unexpected expenses arise, such as car repairs, medical bills, or job loss. Aim to save three to six months’ living expenses in a separate savings account. This may sound daunting, but you cannot do it in stages. Start small and build your fund gradually over time. The peace of mind from knowing you have a financial cushion to fall back on is worth the effort.

Cut Costs 

Cutting costs where possible is another key aspect of family budgeting. This doesn’t mean you have to live a life of deprivation, but rather, make smarter choices about spending your money. Look for areas where you can cut back without significantly impacting your lifestyle. For example, consider switching to a lower-cost phone plan, canceling subscriptions you don’t use, or buying generic brands instead of name-brand products. Every little bit adds up, and the money saved can be redirected towards your savings goals or paying down debt.

Manage Debt Wisely 

Debt can be a major source of stress for families, but there are strategies to manage it effectively. Prioritize paying off high-interest debt first, such as credit card balances, to avoid paying excessive amounts in interest over time. This also includes considering options like Parent PLUS Loan refinancing if you’re managing education-related debt. Refinancing could help secure a lower interest rate, potentially easing monthly payments and improving cash flow for other financial priorities. Additionally, consider using the debt snowball or avalanche methods to accelerate repayment. The debt snowball method focuses on first paying off the smallest debts to build momentum, while the debt avalanche method targets the highest interest rates first, saving more money in the long run. Choose the method that works best for you and stick with it.

Educate Your Children 

Teaching children about money is another valuable aspect of family budgeting. Educating your kids about the value of money, how to save, and the importance of making wise financial choices will set them up for a financially responsible future. Involve them in age-appropriate discussions about the family budget, set them up with a savings account, and encourage them to save a portion of their allowance or earnings. These lessons can foster a sense of responsibility and help them understand that money is a finite resource.

Conclusion

Ultimately, family budgeting is about creating a plan that works for everyone. It’s not about living a life of austerity but making informed choices that align with your family’s values and financial goals. Remember, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to budgeting. What works for one family may not work for another, so it’s essential to tailor your strategies to fit your unique situation. With careful planning, regular review, and a commitment to your financial goals, you can create a family budget that maximizes savings, minimizes stress, and sets you on a path to financial stability and peace of mind.

Best Ways to Explore the Great Outdoors

The great outdoors. Nothing beats it. It offers an abundance of opportunities to connect with nature and experience the unforgettable. Whether you prefer the rugged landscapes of Snowdonia, the ancient woodlands of the New Forest or the sweeping beaches of Norfolk, we’ve got it all here in the UK.

Here are some of the best ways to immerse yourself in this natural beauty.

Hiking adventures

Exploring on foot is one of the most rewarding ways to experience the great outdoors. Hiking allows you to immerse yourself in nature at a pace that’s best for you – whether that’s a gentle stroll or a brisk walk. You also have a better chance to appreciate the wonders that surround you.

If you’re eyeing up a multi-day hiking adventure, consider the West Highland Way in Scotland. It’s 96 miles of breathtaking scenery, including lochs, glens and stunning views of Ben Nevis, the highest peak in the UK.

Or, for a less strenuous option, the Cotswold Way provides 102 miles of picturesque villages, rolling hills and historical sites, perfect for a blend of natural beauty and cultural enlightenment.

Road trips and camping

A road trip offers the chance to cover more ground and a variety of landscapes in a shorter time. With the ability to stop off at different points of interest and do all kinds of activities, it’s a great way to get a more diverse view of nature.

The North Coast 500, often dubbed Scotland’s answer to Route 66, is a spectacular 516-mile route that takes you around the northernmost coast of Scotland. The way is littered with dramatic cliffs, majestic mountains, sandy beaches and remote castles – all perfect for exploration on two feet or two wheels when you’re not on the road.

Pairing a road trip with camping elevates the experience. There’s a plethora of options to suit your preferences, from motorhomes and campervans to tents and ‘glamping’ sites. Camping gives you another level of connection with the outdoors. If you are taking a vehicle such as a motorhome, make sure you have an appropriate motorhome insurance policy in place for protection.

Wildlife photography

Capture the beauty of the natural world through a lens, while taking it all in simultaneously. It’s a fulfilling way and restorative way to engage with nature. The UK is perfect for wildlife photography, offering the chance to snap everything from the elusive Scottish wildcat to seabirds on the cliffs of Bempton.

Consider joining a wildlife photography workshop to learn how to capture the best shots. These often take place in locations known for their rich biodiversity, so they’re like an interactive classroom. Professional guides can help you find the best spots and teach you techniques to improve your photography, leaving you with incredible images that should last a lifetime.

Go out and explore! Be at one with nature.